I often find myself in situations where I feel compelled to address the disrespectful behavior of fellow travelers. Many people tell me to mind my own business and ignore such incidents, but I simply can’t. I have too much respect for the countries I visit, their people, and their culture. I feel privileged to be able to explore their homes, and I don’t want to be associated with those who lack consideration or education. Today, I was reminded that speaking up can make a difference.
While working at a café, I noticed a young couple sitting outside. They were eating and drinking—products they had bought from a nearby 7-Eleven, not from the café itself. The staff had just cleaned the floor 15 minutes earlier, and it was spotless. The girl stepped away for a moment, and the guy, after finishing his cigarette, casually tossed it on the ground and crushed it with his foot. I felt my blood boil, but I stayed calm. I grabbed an ashtray, walked over to him, and stood silently in front of him, pointing to the ashtray. He stared at me, pretending not to understand, so I simply glanced at the cigarette butt on the floor. Reluctantly, he bent down, picked it up, and tossed it into the ashtray. I placed the ashtray back on a nearby table and walked away.
About 10 minutes later, from across the street at my hotel, I saw him lighting another cigarette. This time, however, he reached for the ashtray and used it properly. It was a small victory, but it mattered.
I’m glad I intervened. It cost me nothing, but it showed the café staff that their hard work was valued and respected. Sometimes, standing up for what’s right—even in small ways—can make a difference.
What would you have done in the same situation?